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Building Relationships in the Latinx Community: Know Where Your Friends Are From

Do you have a Latinx friend, neighbor, or colleague who is from another country? Did you just meet someone new?

Make a point to know where they are from! Be respectful by recognizing that some Latinx people might identify as being from California and part of a culture from another country.

It means a lot to someone when you take a curiosity in their culture.

You don’t need Spanish to do this. Connecting with the Latino community in English is a wonderful way to build relationships and learn!

Here are some questions to start the conversation:

  • Did you grow up here [in California]?

  • Where is your family from? / Where is your Spanish from?

  • What’s it like in [that country]?

  • What’s something you love about [that country’s] culture?

Be curious about learning the geography and culture of Spanish-speaking countries:

  • Ask “Where are you from in [El Salvador]? Are you from near the capital? Are you from the coast?”

  • If they are from Mexico, ask where they are from in Mexico. It’s like saying “I’m from the U.S.'' There are so many places you can be from in Mexico!

  • Look at a map together! Ask them to show you where their family is from.

  • Make a point to know if they have an indigenous heritage—you might be surprised to learn that they speak an indigenous language too!

  • Research facts about this place and explore the culture on your own, or ask your teacher to incorporate it into your class material!